On Monday evening, while enjoying black pepper sirloin steak for dinner with my wife in Jurong East Central, at a coffee shop of Block 134, I noticed a fully yellow-painted SBS Transit bus streaming into a bus stop just opposite the coffee shop.
A caption on the bus body had caught my immediate attention. It read: LIFE HAS NO WARNING SIGNS! - reflecting an ad from Prudential Insurance.
I thought about it while exercising in the gym yesterday.
My thinking: I don't concur with the ad.
To me, life has warning signs! The crux is whether we know how to recognise & read them.
Again to me, as an analogy, life is like driving on the highway. The highways have ups & downs, undulations as well as curvatures. To travel safely from point A to point B, & oftentimes, back to Point A, we need to be observant as well as be alert to road traffic conditions.
Not only that, we also have to pay attention to the natural elements, which often can go against our favour, like raining.
Sometimes, we also got to watch out for "blindspots", especially when reversing the car from a parking lot or just overtaking a stationary vehicle even in a carpark.
In Singapore, where even expressways are getting very congested all day long, there are limited roadways where you can really speed. Even then, we got to be on a constant watch for portable speed traps!
On Malaysian highways, it's a different ball game. However, there is another kind of menace Singaporean motorists have to watch out, besides highway robbers.
If one is not too careful, especially when your right foot on the accelerator pedal doesn't cooperate with your brain, one can easily end up in unexpected zones, where you will learn the hard way that Cash is King!
Actually, this game of luck can be played to your advantage, as long as you learn to read the signs.
Malaysian registered vehicles, usually those travelling from the opposite directions to you, often flash their head-lights to signify "troubles" ahead.
Do you pay attention?
Also, whenever vehicles ahead of you are seemingly hogging the highways for no apparent reason, you should already smell a rat. Overtaking the slow convoy at breakneck speed is definitely courting trouble with the law of the land that believes only in money talks!
Reading the warning signs - in this case, "weak signals" as illustrated in the foregoing - is an important skill on the road. However, it also applies to our own lives.
The signs are always there. You just got to pay attention. Learn to trust your instincts.
A case in point: Every morning, when I wake up, I will do my first thing - grab my 'Straits Times' & answer nature's morning call.
If I have to visit the toilet more than three times in a day doing the same thing, I know straight away my system is upset. I will automatically pump in two tiny tablets of Lomotil, especially if it's just a cautiously optimistic scenario.
However, if it's a worst case scenario, where I have to visit the toilet incessantly for half a dozen times, I will throw in quickly two small bottles of 'pau jai yen' (a popular & proven Chinese medicinal concoction).
Jokes aside, in real life, even attacks of the heart and brain - heart attack, cardiac arrest, stroke - have early warning signs.
We - touch wood - just got to learn to heed the red flags, so to speak.
By the way, being obese is by itself already a big warning sign for trouble on your way!